Narcissists are Crazy and Delusional
Narcissists and Emotional Manipulators are the most illogical, irrational, stupid, and delusional people on the entire planet.
They will twist reality according to their own way of thinking.
They will try to force their reality onto everyone else...and then wonder why everyone else is not abiding by the way the narcissist sees things?
They literally don't believe other people should have their own opinions, reality, needs, beliefs, or way of thinking.
They think everyone else should agree with them, and the way they see things, and what they want.
They don't ask substantive questions about you and your life. They just assume things about you and then they try to go about proving their point about you.
Narcissists are also pathological liars and cheaters. So they automatically assume everyone else is the same way they are.
If you try to be nice to them, they think you have an ulterior motive and you are trying to manipulate them into doing something.
They don't understand the concept that you are nice because you like them as a human being. But, they certainly don't like you as a human being, nor do they see you as one. The narcissist/emotional manipulator sees you as an object to be manipulated and used as they see fit. They use you like a pawn in their game.
Narcissists and Emotional Manipulators have warped minds and if you live their world, your mind will become just as warped as theirs.
They literally take out your reality and inject you with their poison. They will slowly kill your confidence and self-esteem from the inside.
The only way to break free from this type of relationship is to know exactly who you are, what you believe, and stand your ground on both. Know what you will tolerate and what you won't tolerate. Know what is good for you and what is bad for you.
That way, when you stick up for yourself and what's in your best interest, you will not back down when they call you crazy or a bad person because you did not do what they wanted you to do.
***If you want to break free from this type of relationship, fill out the worksheets in the Psych Bible E-Journal to help you forge a new path for yourself.